Between the Ghats and Myself

Kehte hain aap kabhi Banaras nahi jaate, vakt aane par Banaras aapko khud bulata hai…
And when it does, you don’t really question it — you just go.

My time in Varanasi didn’t feel like a typical trip. It felt slower, more observant… almost like the city was asking me to notice things I usually overlook.

🌸 A City That Feels Older Than Time

One of the first things that stayed with me was how deeply rooted the city is in time. Often called one of the oldest living cities in the world, Banaras carries its history in every narrow lane, every worn-out step of the ghats, and in the rhythm of everyday life.

I didn’t know that the name Varanasi itself comes from the rivers Varuna and Assi, between which the city is believed to have developed. It is also known as Kashi — the “City of Light.” And somehow, when you are there, that name feels just as real as the city itself.

🌊 The Ghats: Where You Stop Rushing

The ghats are truly the heart of Banaras. Each one carries its own story, its own energy.

I spent a lot of time at Dashashwamedh Ghat simply watching life unfold. At one point, I remember sitting quietly with a small kulhad of chai, not really thinking about anything… just watching the river move.

It wasn’t a grand moment.
But somehow, it stayed with me.

Whether it was the distant temple bells, the sound of chants, or the stillness between the chaos — Banaras had a rhythm that slowly settles within you.

🛕 Walking Through Faith at Kashi Vishwanath

Visiting Kashi Vishwanath Temple was more than just a temple visit. There was something deeply grounding about being there.

The newly developed Kashi Vishwanath Corridor has transformed the experience of the space. Connecting the temple directly to the ghats, it feels open, grand, and yet spiritually intimate at the same time.

Walking through it didn’t feel like moving through a place.

It felt like moving inward.

🍃 Banarasi Flavours and Timeless Streets

Ab Banaras gaye aur Banarasi paan try nahi kiya toh kya kiya…

The taste was sweet, unfamiliar, and oddly memorable — much like the city itself.

Beyond spirituality, Banaras is equally known for its culture and craftsmanship. The famous Banarasi silk sarees are not just garments; they are a legacy woven through generations. Walking through the local markets, you can actually see tradition alive in small workshops, colourful shops, and in the hands of artisans quietly carrying history forward.

The city is also home to Banaras Hindu University, adding another layer to Banaras — one of learning, thought, and culture.

🔥 Manikarnika Ghat: Where Life Feels Different

The most intense and inward experience for me was at Manikarnika Ghat.

There is something about this ghat that doesn’t let you look away.

Sitting there, a thought quietly enters your mind — there may not always be time to forgive, or to ask for forgiveness.

For centuries, people have believed that cremation at this ghat grants the soul moksha — liberation from the cycle of rebirth. It is said that during the last rites, Lord Shiva himself whispers the mantra of freedom into the soul’s ear.

There are many stories woven into the identity of this place. One belief says that when Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati came here, one of Parvati’s earrings — mani — fell at this very spot, giving the ghat its name, Manikarnika. Another story speaks of an eternal flame that has continued to burn through centuries.

But what stayed with me wasn’t just the mythology.

It was the perspective.

In Banaras, death is not hidden away or spoken about in whispers. It is accepted as a natural part of life itself. And maybe that is what shifts something within you.

You realise that not everything can wait.

Not every feeling should remain unspoken.

🪔 The Evening That Stayed With Me

And then comes the experience no one should miss — the Ganga Aarti at Dashashwamedh Ghat.

Every evening, the synchronized movements of the priests, the sound of bells and conch shells, and the glow of lamps reflecting on the river come together in a way that feels both powerful and peaceful.

The air carries incense, river water, devotion… and something ancient that is difficult to describe in words.

For a few moments, everything around you slows down.

And you simply watch.

💭 What Banaras Leaves Behind

What I found most beautiful about Banaras is how everything exists together here — life and death, chaos and calm, devotion and routine.

Nothing is hidden.
Nothing is softened.

Banaras doesn’t try to be perfect.

It simply stays real.

At some point, I didn’t realise when I stopped observing the city and started feeling it.

And maybe that’s why it stays with you.

I didn’t leave Banaras with a checklist completed. I left with moments — quiet ones, heavy ones, beautiful ones.

The kind that don’t ask to be remembered… they just stay.

Har Har Mahadev. 🔱

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